There is an excellent article by Gillian Mounsey posted on the Starting Strength website.
I wish I could take my female clients and 19 year old step-daughter to WFAC for a day. I want to show them that satisfaction, happiness, and sense of achievement is derived from dedication and effort put forth toward a tangible, performance-oriented goal. Most of us will never be completely pleased with the way we look − when vanity is the goal, we are often left feeling empty.
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